“Oh, you’ll only be there for two weeks, a month tops”

Countless predictions, and only a few manifested. This is why many people approach psychics, after one experience, without commitment to a position; is what they are saying true or not? Can they really tell what is coming?

I remember discussing the phenomenon during my second encounter with my now friend, Tracy. At our first meeting, one thing she had said really stuck with me: that the messages she was receiving and delivering from my soul were accurate based on the trajectory I was on right now.

After collecting evidence, the meaning of right now, whether she intended it this way or not, is typically this exact second, spanning only as far as the moment I make my next move. Next move has been proven to mean breath, blink, head turn, utterance, 5 steps into another room or even choosing to back my car out to the left or to the right as I leave the office. Basically, any action I took after the advice was passed along could change my trajectory and align me with a new reality that fit better based on the choices I was making.

Ok, maybe breath seems like a dramatization, but how can we know what action in the physical world will cause us to jump from one future reality to the next, let alone the effects that that action may have on the rest of the world?

At the time, I was having a lot of opportunities start to materialize, but then never fully manifest. I had found it really frustrating, but now, different meaning, have developed patience for this constant rearranging that comes with fast-tracking your self-development or healing journey.

I have found similarities between this phenomenon and how I had previously viewed finding a mate. If I am changing so quickly, how can I ever find someone who matches me until I slow down?

I thought then that avoiding dating completely made the most sense. This was the safest option as I didn’t have the clarity of mind, emotions, body and spirit that I do now. I didn’t know how to stay centered and on my own path of change if I became intimately involved with another changing person. It didn’t make sense get engaged in something when who I was and inevitably what I wanted was constantly changing.

When I made the switch to listening for signs from the universe to guide my choices, I let go of what I wanted, significantly. When things didn’t manifest, it became much clearer that those things weren’t in alignment anymore, and so even though I had “manifested” it, it didn’t quite manifest all the way.

Sometimes I think it is a result of what I want constantly changing. There is a pattern of chasing shiny, exciting adventures in my past…mostly in my past. The universe is trying desperately to keep up with me and provide what I want, and I keep splitting into 5, seeing each path is possible and then bushwhacking my way into some thick woods over there just to take a look. I know this isn’t true anymore, after spending 9 months of backpacking dropping what I wanted, at first like a child being forced by their parents to share their toy, in favor of following the Universe towards what would accelerate my spiritual growth the most.

Sometimes we make certain choices that seem in alignment, forgetting that there are also billions of other humans and animals and aliens moving around making their own decisions simultaneously that can affect if our choice remains in alignment or not. I came home to Delaware following guidance to stay for some time. In alignment with that feeling, I took steps to commit to that choice. Change is creeping in again though. I can feel things rearranging. Maybe there are different things that I need, or maybe the person I’m supposed to be with chose to back out of their parking space left instead of right, it’s hard to say. Maybe I just need more practice letting go of the outcome. The possibilities are infinite (but usually it’s that one).

The Universe and I are in an intimate dance. It responds to my thoughts and I follow the signs it leaves to lead me towards what’s best. I do know that whatever opportunities manifest, they will surprise me in the most fulfilling and satisfying way.

So next time you hear someone who says the psychic wasn’t right, tell them it’s their fault for hopping timelines.